Superfluous

[jamesq]

Just once, I'd like to have some unique positive trait that I could point to and say "That right there - that's why I'm important. That's something no one else has. That's what makes me special."

I'm going off line for awhile. If it's important, don't use email.

Comments

[ya-inga.livejournal.com]

Sweetheart... in this great massive world of wonder....not a one of us has anything that at least one other body on the planet doesn't already have.

It's not uniqueness that makes us special. It's the wonderful way we bring together and express all the many and interesting traits that make up our person that makes us special. And you are special.

Besides valuing yourself for what others see is problematic at best hon. Place true stock in the value you have for yourself - the value others see in us is far too variable and quirky.

Surely you can see the postive traits in you? I know I can see them...

HUGS

You are far too hard on you my dear

[conejita-diabla.livejournal.com]

Oh, thank you for saying so well what I was wondering how to express!!

[mallt.livejournal.com]

ya_inga has said very eloquently what I fail to put into words! You are unique in the fact that you are the only person out of all my friends who can fill the JQ shaped hole! :)

(my initial reaction: WTF?! Who said what? & can I beat them up?)