Note To Self

[jamesq]

Be less creepy around the womenfolk - it's not attractive.

Comments

[rato-do-perigo.livejournal.com]

how creepy was creepy?

[mallt.livejournal.com]

what is you do that's considered creepy?

[jamesq]

Not super creepy - just enough to think after the fact "yeah, probably should have said about 20% less then what you did say".

[jamesq]

Sexual comments around people I don't know well enough to judge if it's appropriate.

[ya-inga.livejournal.com]

Can you teach some of the other boys in the SCA this? ; )

FYI I have never found you creepy - I think you are HILARIOUS! And that is good : ) What did you do that you thought was creepy?

Good luck with your adventures in dating!

[bungle-lord.livejournal.com]

But if I don't creep, how am I suppose to sneek up on them?

[http://users.livejournal.com/_thwap_/]

I've observed you interacting with various people in the SCA at many different times.. You may think you're appearing nervous, or you may think you're appearing creepy to people, or whatever, but the truth is you're quite a popular person in the group. People wouldn't talk to you as much or as easily as they do if they thought you were creepy. I think you're doing fine and don't need to worry quite so much.

Now, if I could just figure out how to follow my own advice.. *sigh*

[othelianna.livejournal.com]

Sseconded! On both the 'teaching' point and the 'never found you creepy' point.

Hilarious, yes.

"...threesome?"

*snorks*

[jamesq]

You want me to teach boys in the SCA how to be extra creepy? Well OK, I guess. I suppose if they need to learn it should be from someone who's good at it. But it is a little like shipping coal to Newcastle.

It's not so much what I did as who I am. It is only with a great effort that I stay within the confines of polite society. If I lose control my filters drop and I say inappropriate things. I was skirting right on the edge of that line last night. Time will tell if I fell to the wrong side of it. I fear that I did, but I'm not sure. This is better then many times in the past when there was no question I dove right over it.

I wasn't on a date - it was just a bunch of us on our usual post-archery beer fest.

[jamesq]

That's exactly the sort of thing I'm talking about. The only difference is that I've gotten to know you well enough to know that joke wouldnt be taken weird.