So you want to ban abortion outright, but that pesky Roe v. Wade thing keeps coming up? What do you do? Well, you could simply make it more and more difficult to get an abortion. After all, you're not actually banning it, you're simply putting up every conceivable (heh) roadblock to it. If the monetary requirements (you don't think the mandatory ultrasound is going to be paid for by taxpayers do you?) don't clobber you, then the barrage of presentations "to keep you informed" might catch you in a moment of weakness. Finally, if navigating all the roadblocks take too long you'll hit your 22 (varies by state) week time limit.
And let's not forget the lengthy, allegedly anonymous, forms you have to fill out. I say "allegedly" because, despite not having your name, they're sufficiently detailed to allow a good data-miner to figure out who you are. How many 6'4", 42-year old, males with red hair own a house in my postal code? I haven't named names, but I bet you could attach a name to that information without much effort. Same for women filling out this information. Then it gets put up on a publicly accessible database, ostensibly for research purposes. The next day a brigade of anti-abortionists just happen to show up on your doorstep.
I'd compare it to a sibling putting his finger as close to your face as they can while chanting "I'm not touching you. I'm not touching you." Except that's funny and this situation isn't.
If these are successful, I predict that even more roadblocks will be put up. Multiple presentations, multiple invasive medical procedures, more detailed forms, all to "keep the mother informed". Time limits will be clawed back (Oops, sorry, but the fetus has nerve tissue now, we can't let you abort this late). The goal being to make it to expensive in terms of time and money to ever successfully get in under the wire.
When abortion is still technically legal, but effectively impossible, they'll declare victory. Seriously, I fully expect some politician to happily stand in front of a crowd and say that "We've made abortion so difficult to get in this state that no one successfully got one last year. Yay!"
Women who try to take things into their own hands will be charged with homicide. This could include self-induced abortions, using a back-alley abortionist, or simply traveling to a less-restrictive area. People who try to assist them will also be charged.
Predictions:
Pro-choice forces will come up with some way of giving women information remotely. decentralized web-sites with information on how to do your own abortion safely. Anti-abortion forces will try to infiltrate these sites, set up "look-alike" sites, etc. Legislatures will try to make the web-sites illegal.
You'll need to give personal information when buying home pregnancy kits.
Laws that outlaw helping people procure an abortion will become more draconian. Walk a woman past the clinic's protesters? That's a fine. Take her to another state? That's jail time. Hell, simply encouraging someone to get an abortion will become illegal.
It makes me glad I'm Canadian. Things aren't perfect here, but they are better. Calgary has an abortion clinic and it's generally free of protesters (due to court injunctions they have to stay well away from it - typically hundreds of feet). Of course, the fact that the building is built to withstand small explosives is testament to the fact that we're not yet as enlightened as I'd like.
Anyway, the whole thing is another attempt to punish women for all kinds of things: Chief among them having sex. Also violating traditional gender roles - married homemakers should want babies, and unmarried women shouldn't require abortions because they're not having sex. There are no other categories.
It all boils down to men making the decisions because women can't be trusted to make the right decisions themselves. It's patronizing, mean-spirited and increases the amount of suffering in the world.
And let's not forget the lengthy, allegedly anonymous, forms you have to fill out. I say "allegedly" because, despite not having your name, they're sufficiently detailed to allow a good data-miner to figure out who you are. How many 6'4", 42-year old, males with red hair own a house in my postal code? I haven't named names, but I bet you could attach a name to that information without much effort. Same for women filling out this information. Then it gets put up on a publicly accessible database, ostensibly for research purposes. The next day a brigade of anti-abortionists just happen to show up on your doorstep.
I'd compare it to a sibling putting his finger as close to your face as they can while chanting "I'm not touching you. I'm not touching you." Except that's funny and this situation isn't.
If these are successful, I predict that even more roadblocks will be put up. Multiple presentations, multiple invasive medical procedures, more detailed forms, all to "keep the mother informed". Time limits will be clawed back (Oops, sorry, but the fetus has nerve tissue now, we can't let you abort this late). The goal being to make it to expensive in terms of time and money to ever successfully get in under the wire.
When abortion is still technically legal, but effectively impossible, they'll declare victory. Seriously, I fully expect some politician to happily stand in front of a crowd and say that "We've made abortion so difficult to get in this state that no one successfully got one last year. Yay!"
Women who try to take things into their own hands will be charged with homicide. This could include self-induced abortions, using a back-alley abortionist, or simply traveling to a less-restrictive area. People who try to assist them will also be charged.
Predictions:
Pro-choice forces will come up with some way of giving women information remotely. decentralized web-sites with information on how to do your own abortion safely. Anti-abortion forces will try to infiltrate these sites, set up "look-alike" sites, etc. Legislatures will try to make the web-sites illegal.
You'll need to give personal information when buying home pregnancy kits.
Laws that outlaw helping people procure an abortion will become more draconian. Walk a woman past the clinic's protesters? That's a fine. Take her to another state? That's jail time. Hell, simply encouraging someone to get an abortion will become illegal.
It makes me glad I'm Canadian. Things aren't perfect here, but they are better. Calgary has an abortion clinic and it's generally free of protesters (due to court injunctions they have to stay well away from it - typically hundreds of feet). Of course, the fact that the building is built to withstand small explosives is testament to the fact that we're not yet as enlightened as I'd like.
Anyway, the whole thing is another attempt to punish women for all kinds of things: Chief among them having sex. Also violating traditional gender roles - married homemakers should want babies, and unmarried women shouldn't require abortions because they're not having sex. There are no other categories.
It all boils down to men making the decisions because women can't be trusted to make the right decisions themselves. It's patronizing, mean-spirited and increases the amount of suffering in the world.
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Date: 2010-04-29 05:14 pm (UTC)I want to be fixed. I've thought about this a lot for 10 YEARS. I'm as sure as they get. I getting to the end of years I would WANT to bear children. Everything time i bring it up, I effectively get a pat on the head and a "there there, there are all these difficulties with it. I think you should reconsider."
It drives me wild. I'm be going through round three this winter with my doctor. If he won't I'm going to find someone who will. It boggles me that, in trying to be a responsible member of my race, I've been effectively told I'm incapable of making that choice.
And I'm going to stop here for the moment, because I can feel my blood start to burn. This is a touchy topic with me.
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Date: 2010-04-29 05:48 pm (UTC)So not only can a women not make the choice to not have childern she can't make the choice to have childern if she wants them and can't have them by normal means.
Damn it women aren't stupid, we can make choices - just allow that choice and back up what ever that choice is with the safest options available.
(This topic really gets my goat too... and the anger isn't directed at you - clearly you understand that we can think and we should have choices about our own bodies.)
I'm really really upset at the hard line maternal care issue that Canada is taking. FFS if Canadian women have the right to choose abortion how dare our government say that the people in the third world do not have the same right in terms of our funding of maternal health.
(ooo really mad about this. I hope the generation of people in power who don't believe in letting people choose goes away soon.)
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Date: 2010-04-29 05:54 pm (UTC)THIS! I was astounded when I read that the other day!
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Date: 2010-04-29 05:58 pm (UTC)http://essure.ca/Home/WhatisEssure/tabid/1222/Default.aspx
No surgery involved & gives (pretty much) the same end result.
Look Again ...
Date: 2010-04-29 06:36 pm (UTC)Consider Bill C-510 that was recently tabled by the Rod Bruinooge, Ken Epp's slimy Bill C-484, or for that matter the HarperCon$ "Maternal Health" initiative for the G8.
There's a single, simple word for the attitude these acts represent: Misogyny.
maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 06:42 pm (UTC)I am 100% against abortion... That being said I am also pro choice. No these do not contradict each other.
I do not believe it is my place to tell someone that my beliefs outweigh theirs.
What our government is doing is saying we accept that our population can legally get abortions. Yours can to just not with our money.
When I lived in Montreal a friend of mine was having an abortion, her boyfriend (at one point fiance) did not believe in abortion and although he paid for the abortion, he would not go with her to get it done. My girlfriend at the time told me that she was stuck going and could I go as well. Since I am 100% against abortion, I said no and no I would not give them a lift.
I am all for realistic information being provided. I am all for trying to convince someone not to have an abortion. I not for public moneys being used either for the information against abortion or helping someone have an abortion. I do not think we should make it prohibitively expensive either.
The fact of the matter is that (in all but rape) the woman chose to have sex and this is the result. You made the choice you live with the consequences.
I should not be forced (even through my tax dollars) to help you. Especially not in someone else's country
Its not a hatred or mistrust of women
Date: 2010-04-29 06:52 pm (UTC)I have not read bill c-510 or c-484
I do not feel it is misogynistic to not be willing to spend money on something I am totally opposed to.
How dare you compare being anti abortion as being hatred against women.
As I say I believe a woman has the right to choose (even if here choice is something I don't support). I, however, also have a right to chose. I choose not to be willing to spend money for her to make a choice I am against (that being said if I got someone pregnant and they chose abortion, while I do not support it, I would pay my share and if she could not pay her share then hers to. For the same reason that I do not believe the government should pay for abortions, because I was responsible for the pregnancy).
Re: maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 07:19 pm (UTC)Re: Its not a hatred or mistrust of women
Date: 2010-04-29 07:24 pm (UTC)What if it wasn't a mistake? Who's mistake is a failure of a contraceptive?
Re: maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 07:27 pm (UTC)Yes but in many places our money goes to in the third world it is to help women who are getting abortions due to rape.... or alternately due to the fact it's their 10th child and there is a good chance they could die. It would also go towards the problem of abortions being done by the women themselves. That's why Canada gave us the right in the first place - there were statistically too many deaths being caused by backalley abortions.
Realistically we should fund all options. If the government wants to encourage the non-abortion thing then they can fund some types of maternal health associations more then others - but they should not take the choice off the table. There are a lot of legitimate reasons for abortion - health, and rape are just a couple.
PS: Maybe I'm just unlucky but the only women I know who had abortions did so because the fetus went cancerous and they didn't mis-carry. The result of such a thing is the slow eventual death of the women as the cells that would have been the child continue to grow and the body does not naturally abort them (which saps the mother of strength aside from all the issues a tumour that size in the uterus causes.
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Date: 2010-04-29 07:35 pm (UTC)But this is an interesting link. I have to admit to not being keen on the surgery and invasive nature of it. I shall look more into it. Thanks!
Re: Its not a hatred or mistrust of women
Date: 2010-04-29 07:37 pm (UTC)If you're against your tax dollars being spent on private health matters between a patient and their doctor in this case, why not others? That's a serious question - what makes type-2 diabetes brought on by a lifetime of overeating eligible where pregnancy does not? Both were preventable, neither were desired.
Re: Its not a hatred or mistrust of women
Date: 2010-04-29 07:39 pm (UTC)Re: maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 07:45 pm (UTC)Re: Look Again ...
Date: 2010-04-29 07:55 pm (UTC)C-484 is a typical back-door anti-abortion bill. Criminalize the harming of a fetus in the hope that we can then criminalize abortion itself. It works because of the "think of the children" emotionalism.
I sometimes think we should bend over backwards to keep Quebec in Confederation simply to counteract the social reactionaries.
But yeah, we ain't perfect.
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Date: 2010-04-29 07:57 pm (UTC)"I'm getting my tubes tied. How do I go forward with that?"
"I don't think you should do that."
"Your opinion is noted, now answer the question."
Re: Its not a hatred or mistrust of women
Date: 2010-04-29 08:00 pm (UTC)Re: maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 08:04 pm (UTC)Malt my tax dollars may got to abortion in Alberta, that does not mean i have to put my tax dollars to help someone in another country get an abortion.
Snoo the Conservatives are not saying the other countries in G8 can not fund abortions for third world countries just that Canada wont.
Re: maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 08:06 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2010-04-29 08:15 pm (UTC)It still boggles me that choosing not to be the vessel of racial immortality seems to offend some deep sense of Universal right.
What seems to get lost in all of this debate is this: Women don't spontaneously become pregnant (except once in some sketchy story). It takes a male. A male also has the power of choice and responsibility. You both do. It takes two. Understand I know this statement is not, of course, taking into account some of the tragic events that result in pregnancy.
Do men (and women) unconsciously fear the end of race? Some apocalyptic tragedy by this? Does anyone think about the kid produced in all this? And the life they are now forced to lead? Their food, shelter requirements? Education? Employment? Children of their own? the list goes on.
One horrific war will fix this argument. When the Human population is so badly depleted that we cannot afford to lose children then maybe it will be a moot point. Religion and moral can again ride in the same cart.
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Date: 2010-04-29 08:22 pm (UTC)When I'm ready for a perminant solution it's certainly something I'll talk to my doctor about... I'm not keep on the idea of surgery much either... there again who is?! :)
Re: maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 08:24 pm (UTC)Canadian women have the right to choose, and have the right to have the proceedure funded through the health care system; but you women over there in the third world - you don't have that right.
That's hyprocracy in it's grossest form, and I choose to call them on it.
This is entirely independent of my personal beliefs in abortion...
My personal belief is that it's my right to choose. I would choose not to. I've always known I would choose not to (unless it were a medical necessity). But I'd will fight tooth and nail to keep it a personal choice and not one made for me by the state declaring it legal or illegal.
Re: Its not a hatred or mistrust of women
Date: 2010-04-29 08:26 pm (UTC)J I never looked at the not funding from the preventable point. It is something to consider. But the difference is that those are helping where as (IMO) abortion is killing that is the big difference.
I make the exception for rape (never considered the incest side and don't honestly know how I feel on that one) because the rape itself is brutal on ones psyche. For a woman to have to give birth to the rapist child is adding insult to injury, but all the power to her if she makes the decision to go through with the pregnancy.
J it is not hatred of women to prefer life. I prefer life. I feel a woman has the right to chose to abort or not. I just don't like the idea of someone other than those involved paying. I also do not see it as punishment to not pay for someone else mistake. The person made the decision to have sex, they should be responsible for the consequences.
I also make a significant exception for when the health of the mother is at stake. I fully support aborting if the health of the mother is at stake. In that case you are putting the yet to be alive child against the now living mother. Once again though I fell that is the mothers choice and should not be made for her. She should be allowed to risk her life for her unborn child if she chooses
Oblivions, I fully agree it takes to to make the mistake and I think the donor should also take full responsibility. That being said it is the woman's decision and not the mans on whether to follow through with the pregnancy or abort (as it should be).
For all, I use the word mistake. Lets make things clear, I use this word because if the person is choosing to abort then the pregnancy was a mistake.o
Re: maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 08:33 pm (UTC)The Canadian government is not telling other governments they cant spend money on abortion just that we wont spend it on abortion for other countries
I fully agree with you. I believe it is the woman's right to choose and would be against legislation removing that right.
While I am against abortion I do not believe my morals outweighs those of mothers.
Re: maternal chealth funding
Date: 2010-04-29 08:34 pm (UTC)